Goals As a Parent

I am not a parent yet, but I have many goals for when I do have children.

 

1. Make sure that I am stable. If you are going to bring a child into this world, this should be your top priority.

2. Raise my children right. I do not want my children growing up around fighting. I do not want to raise my child to become a bully or to fight with other kids.

3. I want to make sure that my child never goes without. If they want a new pair of shoes, then I'll get them.  If they're hungry, then I'll put food in their belly! When they go school clothes shopping, I'll buy them the cutest clothes ever. 

4. I want my child to know what is right from what is wrong.

5. I want my child to live the life that they deserve. If my child wants to be in sports then I'll let them. If they want to be in a band, then go for it. If they want to go on a family vacation during the summer, then let's go!

6. I do not want my child to think that I am just fun and games. They will know how to respect me and their father and everyone around them.

7. My children will be involved with their families, like I am. Their family will come first before their friends. I love my family and I am sure that my children will too.

8. I do not want my children to know about my finances. That is none of their business and to me, I think it just stresses kids out. They should not have to worry about if they can have 5 bucks from me cause I am too poor to hand it out.

9. I don't ever want my child to be afraid of me. I don't want them to be scared to talk to me about anything that is going on in their lives.

10. My number one goal is to just love my children. Be there for them when they need me. Be their shoulder to cry on. I want my children to love their daddy and me. Never be anything less than their mom!

 

So that's it. I'm sure there is more I can think of, but I really don't feel like boring you too much! :)